www.abusoemocional.com Stop Emotional Abuse, You Deserve Better. We all know about Sexual Abuse. We all know about Physical Abuse. But, we know very little about Emotional Abuse. Emotional Abuse occurs when one person emotionally and psychologically abuses another person who is in need of sincere affection. This kind of abuse takes many forms… Your partner Undermines your self-esteem. He/she delivers mixed messages: “I love you” (I hate you.) It’s like pushing you through a cliff and running down to catch you. Your partner can tell you the sweetest things and the most hurtful ones at the same time. Your partner can also humilliate you by ignoring you. He/she might contact you only when they are bored or have some spare time, or need something specific from you. Your partner tells you that he “loves” you, or you are special, but he/she needs an open relationship. Your partner bluffs making you believe he intends to spend time with you, even makes plans that will never happen. Your partner tells you beautiful things he does not really mean at all, and will compensate your tolerance with small tender gifts. Emotional abuse also occurs through financial dependency. One partner does not let the other be financially independent. Or through intellectual and manipulative mind games. Abusers tend to play the victim or they take offense quickly. They invariably put the blame on others, or on the world, or on their luck, or situation. They acuse their partners of not understanding …
@moznico woaw…..well bad things always happen to good people…..you should really go to those programs that can help you out….they can help you get your life on track…im sure they dont charge…
It’s sad that I regcognise all these things happening to me. :/
The worst form of abuse is being ignored for years in your own home, as I am.
This can be anyone; girlfriend, boyfriend, parents, friends. All I can say is end it and be strong. Work towards empowering yourself. Then whe you have power over your own destiny, end the relationship. This especially applies to monetary situations like child-parent relationships. Your parents will probably say like you owe them; just say that the service has been paid for. They got what they bought; a punching bag, a slave to bitch around with in exchange for food and shelter.
@FromBoomTown But the contracts up when you’re older. Cause once you have your own money, you finally have power. Get them out of your life.
my ex boyfriend physicly abused me for 3 years, i never told anyone! i couldnt.. in the begining i told my very bestfriend and she blew up on him.. everything just got wors, everytime id see him all he would do is hit me and put me down. to this day i still cant be around a guy without flinching everytime they move.
@begood4000 its happening to my daughter, help me please.
@Skyclad65 The best way to help is to be supportive of your daughter, and provide her the resource material you find here on youtube and other sites. So she can watch and read stories that will end up sounding like hers. Once she’s starts this process it will be hard to stop and she will more than likely wake up. Once that happens you should be able to help her out the way you want to.
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This is all true for how my mother treated me and my brother. But mainly me because I’m the oldest and a girl. I wish you weren’t so specific in the video/description saying it has to be your partner and “he” because really it all truly fits my mother’s type of abuse to a T lol! Well at least a lot of it.
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this video does not show enough. it can get much worse. i was told constantly, i was too fat and ugly, i dropped down to 120 at the end of this relationship, i was only 140 to start. i made 80% of the money, yet i was lazy. i was a virgin and yet forced to endure stretching excercises to make me ready while he slept w/ other girls and he wanted me to particpate w/ him. i threw away everything and ran 1200 miles
Can the victims take legal action against these abusers ? It’s probably very hard to prove in court ….complicated !
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are women more likely to be emotionally abusive?
my girlfriends mom treated her like crap and she was like her slave and she would manipulate everything and then make her believe she was the crazy one i called child protective services and the took her to a foster home. unfortunately we had to break up because the foster house was far away. but im glad she doesn’t have to deal with her crazy mother anymore. i still love her but it was best for her because if i wouldn’t have done that she would have committed suicide by now
It’s very easy to say that identify an “culprit” and project all the blame on them. The roots of this, on both fronts (abuser and abused) are usually in childhood. It takes a a lot of bravery and skill to get out of these patterns so please don’t unnecessarily shame those who are caught in them as they are generally both victims.
nice video,,, thanks for uploading! i agree with those statements!
wow. my ex was def. emotionally abusive. He was very nice at first but towards the end of our relationship he changed. He would compliment me then put me down. He would always have excuses for treating me poorly and any time I would bring up something wrong he did, somehow it was always my fault. He would always say i was overreacting or deny that he said hurtful things to me. He would also talk to lots of girls but was cautious of me with other guys. He also had temper and lied to me a lot.
First-THANK YOU-This is a powerful video-what “they” promise is what we truly desire-when the follow through doesn’t ever come, I believe, because “we” are good people “we” get stuck on the “HOPE” that “they” will change and ‘come through’ more than being stuck on “them”-hope can bring us through cancer, tragedy, loss of jobs, but HOPE with an emotional abuser can be destructive. I don’t know, of any other situation in life where HOPE could fail a person.
First-THANK YOU-This is a powerful video-what “they” promise is what we truly desire-when the follow through doesn’t ever come, I believe, because “we” are good people “we” get stuck on the “HOPE” that “they” will change and ‘come through’ more than being stuck on “them”-hope can bring us through cancer, tragedy, loss of jobs, but HOPE with an emotional abuser can be destructive. I don’t know, of any other situation in life where HOPE could fail a person.dare2bucounseling
My biological father is the very definition of an abuser of all three types; the only difference was that he had a nice childhood but he was a brat. He decided to pass on his bastardness to my little sister, who happened to have blonde hair and blue eyes. She was the spoiled “Aryan Princess” (oh yeah, he LOVED Hitler) and I was the Bruised Cinderella. He would call me his princess and tell me to get him a glass of water. He was even able to hide all the abuse from my mom for years.
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Great Video… big warning for everyone. Emotional Abuse is a silent killer. It’s so hard to see…almost invisible. I’ve spend 7 months in abusive relationship when I was no more then “object”. It can happened to everyone ( I am trainee life coach, therapist). I will NEVER think that stuff like this will happened to ME but it did…still hurts. Erosion of identity and then open violence…abuser will “love you” until you will find enough strength to run away..and then they will try DESTROY YOU
It’s easy to say walk away, but as you say emotional abusers keep you financially dependent, and they isolate you from, and eventually drive away, everyone you are close too. There is no help out there for emotionally abused people, and believe me I’ve tried! There is help for physically abused and sexually abused people,as there should be, but none for us. They offer to helpyou get counselling but no person trying to keep control of you is going to let you do that. What to do?